REBUILT BROKEN RELATIONSHIP

Emplacement

The relationship failures in almost all sectors. The incomparable Mother and son/daughter relationship is also affected. Parent Vs Children, Management Vs Workers, Husband Vs Wife, Brother Vs Sister, Pastor Vs Congregation, Government Staff Vs General Public, Police Vs Others, Teachers Vs students, etc are not maintained in order. But the negative aspects of relationship like Police Vs Criminals, Politicians Vs Criminals, etc are in strong relationship.             What is the cause?            1) Nowadays, the relationship among family members often broken due to small misunderstanding.              2) Possessiveness is the main cause for broken ladies.            3) Ego is one among the reason for all.            4) Eastern culture like smoking and drinking liquor is one more reason            5) Expecting only positive actions in their life.            6) Exaggerating the beauty or handsome.Last but least is            7) Lack of Finance to run day to day life is undoubtedly the main cause. Ten Keys to Good Parenting:1.  Have an affectionate and affirming relationship.2.  Be open communicators.3.  Communicate clearly and specifically about sex.4.  Be a good role model.5.  Stay tuned in to their world.6.  Pray for your children and yourself.7. Correct your son/daughter, and he/she will give you rest, yes he/she will give         delight to your soul.8.   Teach the success of life by means of Healthy Body & Mind.9.   Practice the children to read morality of life in BIBLE- Best Instruction Before Leaving Earth or any Ethical Religious books.10. Tell the children; “never blame a day in your life. Good Days give you happiness. Bad days give you experience. Both are essential in life! All are God’s blessings!”              REMEDY: To cure the above problem, one should accept family life as sacred and with happy. Most of the love marriages are failure due to lack of understanding and over expectation before marriage. Divide the life into two categories, before marriage and after marriage. Love after marriage is the wealthy and healthy sign for leading a good and happy life. False promises, hypocrisy, over make up, exaggeration, etc are happened in the time of Love before marriage. We can see the sincerity only after marriage. Those who are not able to handle small obstacles, failures, disappointment, distress, dissatisfaction and pain are the real victim for broken hearted. Most of the time, it will lead to Suicides or Murders. Nowadays, most of the ladies and gents are require experiences even in sex. Due to this they got killer diseases like HIV/AIDS, etc. The wife of drunkards, gamblers and miser are fall in the trap of low class gents. Money & dissatisfaction are the two main causes of such elopements, murders, broken families, divorces, etc.   In south India, the dowry harassment is heavy for ladies. Some ladies are also exploiting the same and misuse and thrown the husbands out of the houses by threatening to file a case in Police.Such suicides and attempts of suicides are increasing in school boys and girls circle. The reasons are a) Not able to tolerate even small downs or failures, b) Friends c) Intolerance, d) Love failures(due to infatuation), e) Not able to follow the instruction of the teachers, f) Not able to understand the students by teachers or parents, g) Not maintaining good relationship with children, h) Even for small restrictions, etc. Solution: The Moral and Cultural instruction should be taught in every schools and colleges. Then they will educate their parents. A student should know what is good for their future. In general, a future forecasting is necessary. Most of the students are not aware of the religious sentiments. Due to this, they underestimate other religious people. The point of Humanitarianism has to be seeded in the minds of students. Every one should know what is sin and culture. We should respect other’s dignity. The cultural family background is also the main cause to hide some important factors to be considered as a good human being. Hence, the same to be transformed by teaching the good culture. The same may take few years to get refinement. By S.Paul Sureshkumar, INDIA 

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