Socio-Economic Interface for Violence Elimination (SEIVE)

Location

Mbale
Uganda

SEIVE, (Socio Economic Interface for Violence Elimination is a mainly male- driven organization which counsels, rehabilitates and empowers men to fight violence against women.
The project came as a result of men being recognized as the main perpetrators of domestic violence. It naturally followed that male violence needed to be addressed for women to be safe.
In many cases men who engaged in domestic violence were imprisoned but became more violent than before upon their release. And so SEIVE came up with socially, psychologically and economically oriented anti-violence programs as an alternative to the prevailing punitive methods of handling perpetrators.
The project comprehensively engages a whole community. Twelve step recovery programs are available for the chemically dependent; the unemployed get to learn a savings culture and join together in economically beneficial activities. Women have a place to report violence and have conflict resolved in non-confrontational ways; the youth gather to learn musical instruments, engage in drama depicting the evils of domestic violence, hold football tournaments and attend seminars.
All levels of society are involved in sensitization seminars: the police, schools, prisons, local government, women and men’s clubs, youth associations, religious organizations without discrimination, street children…
The project aims at getting the world to prevent the next generation from seeing violent acts because it believes that violence is learned in childhood and lived out in adulthood.

Reason:
I am nominating SEIVE not only because it is the only organization of men working against domestic violence but also because of its unique and promising method; a method that engages men women and children together in the fight against domestic violence. It has helped me learn how to reconcile conflicting couples and very effectively bring peace in families and communities at large. Its economic programs have proved that with a little revolving loan many illiterate people can work together and make a living provided someone with experience and skill is collectively hired to manage their investments. Many charitable funds at both national and international levels have been lost because money was placed in the hands of ordinary people who did not even have a savings culture. Perhaps this is one reason third world countries remain poor despite all aid that comes to them. Most outstandingly this is a project that has far reaching global solutions not only to domestic but all forms of violence. It stands on the principle that violence comes from a behavior that was formed already in child hood since dominant adult behavior is learned and established in childhood. By making sure that children do not see any form of violence, the world of tomorrow will be free of violence. For example, there would not be abusive people because no one would have been sexually abused as a child. A new component in youth programs is therefore introduced. The potential for future abusive and violent behavior needs to be addressed in the youth and in the children even in school curricular and syllabuses... Therefore parents have an obligation to safeguard their children against developing a potentially violent future adult life and must be held accountable and responsible if they were negligent about this. I am happy that I no longer hear the cry of children that are being violently caned by angry parents. It still goes on in schools and this too needs to be addressed. One head teacher even quoted the bible saying “spare the rod and spoil the child”. I am also touched by the vision bearer of SEIVE, Rev. Fr. Paul Okoth. He has a unique approach in counseling men against domestic violence, something of a unique calling by God. We see real change in those whom he counsels. His counseling methodology ought to be made known and spread out for the common good of society. I am also happy to nominate SEIVE due to its unique approach to prisoners and correctional institutions. It is perhaps the only way to end torture and abuse that occurs in detention. Surely every prison in the world ought to benefit from the SEIVE component for their inmates. Behavior would be changed by lasting and suitable behavioral change methods, period.
Organization: Socio-Economic-Interface for Violence Elimination (SEIVE)
First name: Paul
Last name: Okoth
City: Mbale
Country: Uganda

Comments

Sun, 03/14/2010 - 14:48

Arguing from the observation that the boy child adopts his role model from his father,it makes sense that men rather than women would be the main perpetrators of domestic violence.It certainly supports the psychological principle that dominant behavior is aquired in childhood.You have generated new knowledge in this field.In fact parents had better be careful about who their child's role model is!