On Spirit Day last year, I again was brought to recognize the devastating effects of bullying on our children and youth. This is especially true in our small remote communities, where the pressures of bullying and to fit in can be so intense. I realized that instead of waiting for someone else to act, that I wanted to be part of tackling the bullying issue in our communities. This brought me to look for a program that could work for us. After all, we are in a unique situation here, with our entire population living in such a small area, and still so separate from other communities. I wondered what kind of a difference could be made if our islands were saturated with a great program in a short period of time. This program would need to be taught to all of the school children, as well as to be available to all citizens of our island communities. That is when I came across a program run by Jim Jordan, called reportbullying.com which seemed to be perfect for our needs.

Problem

Our group of islands, Haida Gwaii (also known as the Queen Charlotte Islands) has a total population of 5000 people, spread throughout 5 towns and 2 First Nation Reserves. Our remote island communities are in need of a comprehensive anti-bullying program that not only educates students and adults alike in what bullying looks like, but offers concrete steps in what to do to help those being bullied. It should include character building education that fosters empathy, kindness, communication, cooperation and conflict resolution skills.

Solution

To find an anti-bullying program that not only informs children and adults about what bullying is and the damage it causes, but also offers concrete solutions. It should include character building exercises that promote kindness, communication, co-operation and friendship by stressing empathy and conflict resolution skills. Furthermore, this approach must extend beyond the classrooms to be reflected in their homes and communities to insure the greatest odds for success. I found this in a program called reportbullying.com which is presented by Jim Jordan from Toronto, Ont.

Example

The program I've found is one that has a proven track record, is offered in an entertaining and dynamic show that retains the interest of children and adults alike, and would be available to all schools and communities. It builds on the belief that all of us, particularly as bystanders, have a role to play in reducing or eliminating bullying, which is crucial in allowing children to have a positive school and life experience. It also offers a reporting system that could be accessed by all island residents, and would be followed up by the school principals or local RCMP detachments. This program starts with surveys that give the presenter a better idea of the unique needs of our islands, followed by presentations at all island schools and communities (over a 2 week period) as well specialized training for the police, principals and local service providers, who would be following up on all reports.

Marketplace

Although there has been talk about the need for anti-bullying solutions throughout the years among all the varied schools, communities and community organizations, there is no other solution on the table to date. The support I've received regarding this initiative, from all those I've been in contact with (schools, schoolboard, RCMP, mental health, youth and elder's groups as well as community wellness programs) leads me to believe that all of these players will be instrumental in helping make this program a success.